This is where the Dalai Lama will be coming in shortly (I kind of
told you he was coming!). If mutability, adaptability, and creativity are three
of our core characteristics and potentials as a species, the fourth is
compassion, or to be more specific, joy in the positive participation in other
people’s lives and a joy in gaining and maintaining an awareness of other
people’s lives. These are the core concordive potentials that can bring us
forward into a newer and better world, the kind of world where Miranda’s
awestruck words in The Tempest will ring true: “Oh, wonder! / How many goodly
creatures are there here! How beauteous mankind is! Oh, brave new world / That
has such people in’t !” Yet I feel I must defend the notion of our compassion
as a universal concordive potential, much as I must attack the myth of
permanence. Of all the concordive potentials I have discussed, compassion has
fallen most into doubt in our times. And where there is doubt without the
antidote of belief, there is darkness. There is a reckless flailing about.
There is abandonment. There is cunning without justice. There is power without
balance, mind without measure. None of which are very promising advents for our
future – and all of which are now regular and widespread phenomena in our
society. Compassion is now seen (or at least portrayed) by many as an optional
extra in life; an aspect that those with free time or resources or “a good
heart” readily engage in, much like artistic expression is now seen as the
pleasure and kingdom of the chosen few, but not the many who must live in the
real world. Just think of the heartlessness of the characters in Seinfeld – it
may have been a running joke, but it was a dark joke and a successful one
because of the deep grain of truth that poked us hard in our conscience as well
as our funny bone. We act as if compassion, like art, can and perhaps should be
indulged in privately, in small moments, with our family and loved ones when
the world is not bearing down on us with all its ponderous weight – but that it
does not have a serious role to play in the crafting of our lives. Unless we
are monks, of course!
It will be helpful here to compare and contrast the Dalai
Lama’s concept of compassion as something which we should develop to the state
of universal compassion for our own benefits as well as others’ (Ethics
123-124) with two other concepts of compassion: Christ’s famous formulation
(and its context) and Mengzi’s ideas about compassion. I want to do this
briefly in order to show that between three continents and two millennia there
has existed a stable nexus of compatible ideas and observations on compassion
that demonstrates the universal existence of compassion. For if it is true that
man is highly mutable in how he expresses his essence, how he dwells in this
world, then it will also be true that man’s expressions of the universal
instinct for compassion will be highly variable and highly dependent on social
norms and theories (yes, theories!) for the expression of compassion. And to
put it mildly, our current social norms completely suck. But they don’t have to
suck – and neither do we! Yet I also want to compare these three theories of
compassion in order to more fully integrate and express my thoughts on our
potentials, and to prepare the reader for my discussion afterwards on how
external conditions play such a pivotal role in the actualization of our
potentials and how we can control those external conditions.
So here I summon the
Dalai Lama: in Ethics for the New Millennium, the Dalai Lama vigorously
defends the necessary and ubiquitous role of compassion in our lives, and not
merely in a wistful sense. He writes
Let us now consider the role of compassionate
love and kind-heartedness in our daily lives. Does the ideal of developing it
to the point where it is unconditional mean that we must abandon our own
interests entirely? Not at all. In fact, it is the best way of serving them –
indeed, it could even be said to constitute the wisest course for fulfilling
self-interest. For if it is correct that those qualities such as love,
patience, tolerance, and forgiveness are what happiness consists in, and if it
is also correct that nying je, or compassion, as I have defined it, is both the
source and the fruit of these qualities, then the more we are compassionate,
the more we provide for our own happiness. Thus any idea that concern for
others, though a noble quality, is a matter for our private lives only, is
simply shortsighted. Compassion belongs to every sphere of activity, including,
of course, the workplace. (Dalai Lama, 127).
Here the Dalai Lama
speaks of the necessity and importance of compassion. Elsewhere he speaks of
the ubiquity and utility of compassion: “Because our capacity for empathy is
innate, and because the ability to reason is also an innate faculty, compassion
shares the characteristics of consciousness itself. The potential we have to
develop it is therefore stable and continuous” (Ethics, 123-24). In Ethics
for the New Millenium, the Dalai Lama provides a rich and deep articulation
of what it can and should mean to be compassionate. He calls for us to question
the rather petty and narrow interpretation of compassion that seems to dominate
much of Western culture, and develops, in my humble opinion, a near-flawless
formulation of personal compassion. I will shortly discuss the one glaring flaw
in his approach after I have discussed the other two compassion theories, but
right now I want to enlarge on the significance of the Dalai Lama’s teachings
and how they relate to my theory on total change and the myth of permanence.
The Dalai Lama
argues that compassion is the source and fruit of “love, patience, tolerance,
and forgiveness” and that essentially the compassionate life is the meaningful
and happy life, since compassionate thinking, words, and deeds provide the
framework for the arising of the aforementioned virtues. This ties in to my
claim that compassion is the center stone of the four concordive potentials, as
I will show very shortly. He also writes that imagination plays a vital role in
the effective fruition of compassion: “If we examine those actions which are
uniquely human, which animals cannot perform, we find that this faculty plays a
vital role…But the use to which it is put determines whether the actions it
conceives are positive or negative, ethical or unethical” (72). In connection
with my points on the other three potentials and our need for proper external
conditions, imagination as a composite aspect of compassion is completely
essential to growing our compassion, balancing our potentials, and
self-evolving to a higher state of consciousness and presence as a species.
What I draw from the Dalai Lama’s thoughts on imagination and compassion is
that we need to recognize what kind of imaginative forces we are allowing to
gain dominance in our lives, our thinking, speech, and behavior. We need to do
this because our imagination colors and shapes everything we do and think as
subjective beings. When we begin to monitor and choose our imagination in a
positive way, we can gain more and more conscious control of our behavior and
we can more and more easily take compassionate action. And compassionate
action, as the Dalai Lama notes, generates more positive energy and more
virtues in those who are both the practitioners and recipients of compassionate
behavior. Imagining this universe and our role in it positively is the first
step towards fully actualizing our compassion – and balancing and coordinating
our concordive potentials. In this way, compassionate thoughts, words, and
deeds serve as the orienting point for positive creative behavior and thinking,
adapting compassionately to the environment around us, and accepting the
changes these behaviors create for us and the world around us. In the second
section I will take a more in-depth look at positive imagining and compassion
and how exactly they work as I flesh out my concept of the syndividual. But
now, having capped my discussion of the Dalai Lama, I am going to look at
Christ’s compassion theory and look for some connections there.
I really don’t even
have to say what Christ is most famous for saying, but I am going to say it
anyway, and I am also going to look a little bit at the context of his saying
it – at the larger core of Christ’s compassion theory. There are two versions
of Christ’s formulation, one in the Gospel of Matthew and one in the Gospel of
Luke, and we will go with Luke because it is ever so slightly pithier. And to
be fair to other religions, the Jewish prophet and leader Hillel, who was alive
just before the rise of Christ, had a phrase in his repertoire of awesome
phrases that was very similar to Christ’s. And indeed, the widespread nature of
this sentiment (it occurs as well in pagan sources and in secular philosophy,
such as Kant’s famous categorical imperative) points to the widespread
acceptance, at least on the level of wisdom, of the inherent value and presence
of compassion in human life. So here goes: “Do to others as you would have them
to do to you” (Luke 6, 31-32). This seems a very simple and bare edict, almost
like, “yeah, so, I knew that…,” and this is probably the case, at least in part,
because we are so used to hearing one version of it or another. But it seems
likely that many of us, myself included, have not taken enough time to more
fully process the significance of this concept. It is so stunningly simple, so
easy to pack away in the head without working into our daily lives what that
message can mean for our lives and the lives of others. There is a
near-infinity of wisdom in this simple phrase, and after looking more at the
biblical context for Christ’s compassion theory, I would like to unpack some of
the deeper significance of his teaching and its overall implications for my own
theories in this essay.
Around this phrase,
in both Matthew and Luke, Jesus ties compassion in this universalizing sense
(very close indeed to the sense the Dalai Lama invokes) to the worship and
awareness of God. We are, for better or for worse, not so much interested in
drawing a universal lesson from this, since such an attitude these days when
construed as mandatory for humanity is more likely to cause strife and marches
and gunfire then it is to cause positive global change. But what else does
Christ talk about? Just before the Golden Rule in Luke, Christ provides some
context for the enacting of the Golden Rule, and after calling for universal
compassion, he harshly reprimands those who are compassionate in a more limited
(and for us, familiar, sense). Before: “But to you who hear I say, love your
enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for
those who mistreat you” (6, 27-28). After: “For if you love those who love you,
what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them” (6, 32-33).
Now to unpack that Golden Rule a little bit: Christ is telling us to perform
our actions while being so aware of other people’s being and needs that those
actions do not, to the best of our abilities, conflict with the presumable
wellbeing of others. He wants us always to be performing the intellectual
experiment of putting ourselves in the other person’s shoes, to deliberately
shift our perspectives so we can more readily sense the implications of our
actions for other people. Christ is telling us to be always imagining the lives
of others as accurately and sensitively as we can so that when we take an
action, that action is at least as positive for other people as it is for us.
He is telling us to be imaginative and sensitive, and that these qualities are
fundamental to successful and meaningful compassion. Without imagination and
sensitivity, how can one be successful on a regular basis in taking
compassionate action, in putting oneself in someone else’s shoes?
To look at it in
another way, Christ is calling on us to put all four of our concordive
potentials to use in being compassionate and living a meaningful life: be creatively
aware of others, adapt to this awareness and its significance in our lives,
change your life on these principles, and you will be able to act often, if not
always, out of compassionate concern. So two thousand years ago, Christ was
telling people they already knew how to practice compassion when it was easy,
but the more rewarding way to do it was to practice universal and imaginative
compassion. And people loved it! Christianity kicked so much ass and this idea
of universal love was… well, pretty much universally appealing (even if not
universally practiced). This goes to show that compassion is definitely a core
part of our being, whether we are atheists, Jews, Muslims, Buddhists
(especially Buddhists!), Christians, agnostics – we simply need the right
conditions for our compassion to really shine. Christ and his message have
helped to provide a particular version of those conditions for many people ever
since he gave that famous Sermon on the Mount. But sadly those conditions are
not universal, unlike the raw potential of compassion.
Which brings us
neatly to Mengzi. Mengzi argues that compassion is a fundamental part of human
nature; and unlike Jesus and the Dalai Lama (at least in his Ethics for the New
Millenium), Mengzi elaborates on the social and political conditions necessary
for the flowering of compassion in society. For Mengzi, the social and
political conditions he envisions are wedded to his vision of universal
compassion, much as Christ’s vision was wedded to the worship of God. But we
can accept and draw benefits from both aspects of Mengzi’s theory without
accepting wholesale the total validity of his proposed social and political
conditions, much as we drew from Christ without accepting (or rejecting) his
theistic religiosity. On human nature, Mengzi writes:
As for what they [humans] are inherently, they
can become good. This is what I mean by calling their natures good… As for
their becoming not good, this is not the fault of their potential. Humans all
have the feeling of compassion. Humans all have the feeling of disdain. Humans
all have the feeling of respect. Humans all have the feeling of approval and
disapproval. The feeling of compassion is benevolence. The feeling of disdain
is righteousness. The feeling of respect is propriety. The feeling of approval
and disapproval is wisdom. Benevolence, righteousness, propriety, and wisdom
are not welded to us externally. We inherently have them. It is simply that we
do not reflect upon them. Hence, it is said, ‘Seek it and you will get it.
Abandon it and you will lose it.’ Some differ from others by two, five, or
countless times – this is because they cannot fathom their potentials. (Mengzi
6A6.5-6.7)
Here the
myth of permanence re-emerges as an issue again, since it has helped to hide
from us our potentials: we have
surrounded ourselves with a galaxy of distractions and with the strong bulwark
of cynicism and jaded and staid complacency that is such a strong part of our
zeitgeist. In order to overcome this bulwark, we must follow Mengzi here and
reflect long and hard upon our potentials – and take action passed upon this
reflection.
Mengzi is much more
linear than Christ, and more socially minded than the Dalai Lama, but between
all three it is clear that compassion is one of our central features as human
beings – and to borrow a Christian term but recast it in a secular mold,
compassion should be the center-stone of our redemption. Mengzi blames the
differences in the way humans manifest their compassion on social, political,
and material environments, and in this I have to (mostly) agree. If we are to
sincerely believe in our potential as a species, then we must believe in the
significance that the social, political, and material elements must play in the
success of our species. Mengzi says, “In years of plenty, most young men are
gentle; in years of poverty, most young men are violent. It is not that the
potential that Heaven confers on them varies like this. They are like this
because of what sinks and drowns their hearts” (6A7.1). Generally speaking,
Mengzi proposes as the remedy for poor social, political, and material
environments that which men value in common: “What is it that hearts prefer in
common? I say that it is order and righteousness” (6A8.1). More specifically
Mengzi proposed a “benevolent government,” an ethically instructive educational
system, a reinforcement of the value of reflection, and a whole suite of
specific political actions for rulers to take, but we will not look into these
last, since they are largely of so specific a nature that they will only
detract from the foci of this essay (Norden xxv). But suffice it to say that
much of what Mengzi has to say based on his theory of compassion could be quite
profitably modified to serve as part of a framework for bringing about real and
total change in our society. An ordered and righteous society certainly sounds
good to me!
Yet despite all the
wisdom of Mengzi’s approach, we must remember that the change we seek will
almost certainly have to encompass far more than the political, legal, social,
and material changes that a purely Mengzian approach would advocate. But
between the three accounts of compassion I have examined there exists a stable
tripod of theory and practice that extends back across more than two thousand
years and, if we include the spread of Buddhism and Christianity, across all
the inhabited continents. And as the Dalai Lama notes, “All the world’s major
religions stress the importance of cultivating love and compassion” (Ethics
123). This near-universality of an emphasis on compassion only further endorses
my claims about compassion, but perhaps even more importantly, compassion is
the sort of attitude that inherently encourages comity and compromise. This
means that while I have only sketched out a tripod of theories on compassion as
a way of demonstrating the viability of universal compassionate practice in our
time, that practice has at its fingertips a world-wide body of theories and
practices it can syncretistically draw upon and synthesize into a secular and
universally utilizable theory of compassion that can also satisfy disparate
religious and cultural beliefs.
All this jazz about compassion and commonalities and the core
elements of humanity is one long DNA strand meant to point out one thing: the
idea that we can’t change the world is a myth perpetuated by institutions,
ignorance, tradition, and above all, fear. If total change is to come (and we
are the ones who must bring it upon ourselves, not cosmic superheroes, aliens,
Jesus, movie stars and philanthropists answering the real-world version of the
batman signal, nor the four horsemen of the apocalypse – no one wants to see
them come anyway!) we must look to our mutability, adaptability, creativity,
and compassion for the solutions. Our compassion will have to be deep, and we
will need to be creative in the ways we use it and conceive of it. We will have
to be willing to change ourselves in the name of compassion, creativity,
adaptability, and mutability. And we will have to adapt, to accept and
understand the significance and value of our own creativeness, our own
compassion and mutability. Cuz baby, I think a change would do you good.
After all, we know
we are not a perfect species, but that is no excuse for saying we cannot do a
much better job improving the likelihood of our improving as a species. That is
the myth of permanence talking; that is the negative imagination parading
before our eyes. We can change. And by “can” I mean it is in our immediate
grasp, it awaits only the momentous realization of a strong minority of a
single generation for us to take the first discernible and self-knowing steps
towards radically progressing as a species. We can choose from a pre-existing
wide array of possible habits, diets, exercise regimes, institutions, climates,
social surroundings, rhetorical environments, political structures, etc., all
of which go towards shaping the manifestations of our humanity. And to top it off,
we can invent (and are constantly devising meta-inventions, new ways to create
inventions or to manipulate the manipulators of our environment) new forms of
these in case the existing habits and diets and institutions are not effective
enough for us.
So we have evolved
to the point where we can choose the grounds of our evolution to a remarkable
degree. We can self-evolve, and I do not simply mean this in a physical way
(though the sinister implications of this possibility are growing more apparent
by the day). We can evolve socially, psychologically, spiritually – if we want
to. And we will only want to if we see the benefits, and believe in their
possibility. The myth of permanence radically denies this possibility – but it
is a shitty lie. We can change in two key ways, and this is where I will be
discussing the Dalai Lama’s one major deficiency in his compassion theory: 1)
we can change as individuals by changing the way we imagine the world and
thereby truly engendering our compassion. This is the first step. 2) But we can
also change, and we must change, the external world around us. The Dalai Lama
discusses compassion almost exclusively from an individualistic perspective; he
calls for personal compassion, but he speaks very little about the importance
and necessity of vast social, institutional, and global change. This is where
Mengzi’s theory helps us out, since he is the theorist who specifically targets
the external conditions that give rise to our actual expressions of being. He
acknowledges that our families, institutions, traditions, economies, and other
environmental factors strongly condition the ways in which our potentials do
and do not become actualities.
So how do we overcome this second hurdle to total change?
The first hurdle is difficult enough. Surely we are not all called to become
revolutionaries and activists? While the second section of this essay will more
thoroughly address this question, I can say here that there are ways for all of
us to be involved in jumping over that second hurdle, of changing our total
conditioning environment without giving up our vocations or rejecting our
families and taking vows of poverty. Just as the Dalai Lama’s vision of
compassion does not require us to give up all the personal aspects of our lives,
my vision does not call for all of us to become professional revolutionaries
and full-time volunteers.

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